Hold Tight or Let Go?

Have you ever been presented with a situation but you are not sure if you should hold on to it or if you should just let it go... I have had several of these situations come up in my life over the past couple of weeks and I need yalls help!

The first situation was with my sister... and I will go ahead and say I have already made my decision on this one. My decision is to hold tight to my sister, after all - she is my SISTER!! :) But I will still let you in on the situation - Well last weekend she said she would watch my dog, so I took Annie to my parents house (my sister lives there too). Well I left there house arouunf 5 to go to an out of town dinner and I didnt expect to be back until late. I talked to my sister before I left and she said she would be returning shortly. When I got to Russelleville I called my sister to let her know I had left Annie in my bedroom (the one at the parentals house). Well my sister said that she still had got home yet, so even though I was slighty irritated at this point I let it go. Well on my way back to Little around 10pm I called my sister... no answer... I knew this was not good! So when I arrived at my parents house at 11pm i found my dog still in my room - right where I left her... although my room was not how I left it... it now had a chewed up Betsy Johnson bathing suit, clothes, sun glasses, bra, everything in my shower, and the door! I thought I was going to die... But I didnt and I didnt kill my dog or sister either - we are all still alive and choosing to put this incident in the past...

Now situation #2... The Boy - the boy's name is Parker, he has been the love of my life for almost 2 and a half years. We recently ended our relationship due to certain circumstances and the fact that I was moving back to Little Rock (he lives in Fayettevile - 3 hours away) was not helping our relationship. So we decided to split... Well ever since I have moved home we have missed each like crazy and have been calling and texting like every chance we get! I also saw him last weekend (my out of town dinner in Russelleville), but I want to see him again... like asap! So I realized that i was going to have a free weekend this weekend and I thought whoohoo - I will go visit him! Well I told him the good news and he was excited, but he said he has to work all weekend... and I know he works a lot but I see it as like even if I only see him for an hour it would be worth it. Well I feel like he is leaning towaards me not coming since we wont have much time to spend with each other. So what should I do?! Because the crazy woman inside me says "well if he doesnt think a little time is better than no time - then I am never going up there.. lol." Then the other part of me (the sane part) says "maybe he really is busy and he wont have much time to spend with and he doesnt what me to drive that far just to see him for an hour." But still I think that if someone (parker) missed me enough he would want me to come regardless... I dont know?! So should I say forget it im not going or should I go because I miss him like crazy?

Situation #3 will have to wait because my little fingers hurt lol :) but followers (Ahley and Kelly) please respond via text, phone call, or blog comment...